15 Expert Tips for How to Work with a Recruiter in 2026

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8 min read. Updated on April 24, 2024

Learn how to work with a recruiter so they can help you land the job.

When you're searching for a new job, working with a skilled recruiter can make all the difference. A recruiter helps open doors to your dream company, provides input on your marketing materials, and coaches you on what works and doesn't work during interviews for a specific client — all things that can be extremely valuable during your job search. 

Below, we cover tips for how to work with a recruiter, including what to do and what not to do. 

Tips for how to work with a recruiter to find a job

As you navigate how to work with a recruiter, you may seek out a recruiter yourself, or a recruiter may seek you out if you seem like a fit for one of their job openings. 

No matter how you end up working with a recruiter, the following tips are intended to guide you on how to foster a positive relationship and get the most out of your partnership. 

1. Know your goals

Before you begin working with recruiters, it's a good idea to consider your career goals. 

  • What is your niche? 

  • What type of company culture is a good fit for you? 

  • What is your dream position? 

  • What companies would you love to work for? 

Answering these questions will help you secure the right recruiter for your career path. Also, the clearer you are, the easier it will be for a recruiter to identify the right job fit for you.

2. Keep your resume current

Most recruiters will want to see your resume before meeting with you. Be proactive and make sure your resume is up to date before contacting and working with recruiters. 

Consider investing in a professional resume-writing service, such as TopResume, to ensure you have an optimized and marketable resume that effectively showcases your skills and qualifications.

3. Interview recruiters

You'll disclose a great deal of information about your work history and career goals to recruiters along the way. It's essential that you trust those you're working with and can get along with them. 

Before working with recruiters, take the time to interview and get to know them to ensure you feel good about working with them. If you have any hesitation, clarify why, as it may be an indication that you should move on and keep looking.

4. Be courteous and respectful

Like anyone, recruiters want to work with people they like. Treat them with respect and be polite when interacting with them. Also, keep in mind that recruiters have full calendars because they are helping many people like you land jobs. Be respectful of their time by keeping communications brief and to the point, and refrain from inundating them with phone calls and emails.

Pro tip: When considering how to work with a recruiter, be sure to communicate with them in the same manner you would with a hiring manager. Your communication with your recruiter is an indication of how you will represent yourself to a hiring manager, and you want that impression to be positive and professional.

5. Follow through with commitments

When working with a recruiter, they need to be able to trust your word and commitment to show up. If a recruiter has scheduled an interview or meeting for you and you've agreed to attend, follow through. It reflects poorly not only on yourself but also on the recruiter if you don't. 

6. Trust recruiters to do their job

In most cases, recruiters have the expertise and knowledge to help you navigate your job search. They also have a relationship with the client and understand the client's needs. They know what they're talking about, so trust that they will guide you in the right direction.

7. Help recruiters help you

As you consider how to work with a recruiter, know that you will be sharing a lot of job-related information with them, and it’s essential that you don't hold back. Openly share pertinent information, even if you think it's something you need to hide.

  • For example, if you've held several positions in a short period of time or have gaps in employment, it can be helpful if you equip the recruiter with information as to why. That way, he or she knows how to best represent you to employers.

Casie Luke, a Houston-based recruitment and talent acquisition expert who's been working in the field for over a decade, shares: 

"Lots of movement in your career is okay. Just tell recruiters up front so they know how to market your background and job changes to their clients. If you have had three jobs in five years, most employers aren't going to be excited about it. However, if you can say the first company went out of business and the second was over an hour each way for commuting – those are good reasons to be looking for a new job and help to validate why you've moved around a lot."

8. Be open about working with other recruiters

How honest can you be with a recruiter? When it comes to your job search, be as honest as possible. 

Recruiters appreciate honesty on all fronts, from your work experience to whether or not you are working with other recruiters. They understand that you're in the market to get a job and that you'll likely have eggs in various baskets.  

Casie Luke also states: 

"There is nothing worse than a recruiter getting to the final stages of a job search to find out that they will not be reaping any rewards for the sweat they have put in for you. Make sure you tell the recruiter all of the places that you have already applied so they don't double-dip or waste effort."

Recruiters will respect you for your honesty. It's also a small world out there, and you don't want to leave a bad taste in anyone's mouth by withholding the truth.

9. Ask for constructive criticism

Be open to receiving constructive criticism to help you improve your marketing materials and interviewing process. If the recruiter doesn't offer constructive criticism voluntarily, ask for feedback. This can only help you improve your chances of securing an interview and job.

10. Help recruiters find you online and offline

Many recruiters prefer to find you rather than you coming to them. Make it easy for recruiters to find you online by having a current LinkedIn profile

You can also write professional articles for publications in your field, create a professional blog, or get involved in online communities like Quora. 

Being active in your community, attending networking events, and teaching courses are viable ways to get noticed by recruiters, too.

11. Track your submissions

Many don't think of this when considering how to work with a recruiter, but it's wise to keep a book or list of your job submissions. It can be frustrating for both you and recruiters if you receive a call about a position and you're clueless as to which position is being referenced.

12. Offer up referrals

Businesses thrive on referrals, and external recruiters operate very much like a business. Offering qualified referrals to a recruiter will put you in their good graces and at the top of their list for future job openings for which you are qualified. 

TopResume's Career Advice Expert, Amanda Augustine, shares that even when a recruiter calls you about a position you're not interested in, you can still put a positive spin on the situation. She offers the following advice to her clients:

"When a recruiter contacts you with a job that isn't a fit for or of interest to you, thank the recruiter for reaching out, explain the type of job you are interested in, and then offer to put the recruiter in touch with someone from your network who would be a better fit for their current open requisition."

13. Don't burn bridges

Let's say you come across a recruiter who's not your favorite, or you don't feel it's a great fit after you've started working with them. In that case, you can simply have a professional conversation with the recruiter to let them know you've found another recruiter to work with or see if there's some compromise that can be made to improve your working relationship. 

Whatever you do, however, do not engage in a negative manner with them or post anything negative online. It's a small world, as they say, and word gets around. Other recruiters might hear about or see it and not want to work with you moving forward if you take such an approach. 

14. Keep in touch, even after you've landed a job

In some cases, a recruiter can become a lifelong career advocate. You never know when you might be in search of a new job, so if you click with your recruiter, make an effort to stay in touch with them for the long term. 

It can be as simple as an email every six months to remain on their radar. This also gives you the opportunity to offer referrals and possibly help a colleague of yours out, as well.

15. Tailor your communications

Effective communication goes both ways when you're working with recruiters. Ask your recruiter what his or her preferred method of communication is, be it text, email, or phone calls. 

If their preferred method doesn't align with yours, then share what your preferred communication method is, and work together to find the best way to correspond so neither of you misses each other's messages. 

Do’s and don’ts of working  with a recruiter

Here are a few additional tips on the do’s and don'ts related to communication and how to work with a recruiter.

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The do’s 

  • Do allow the recruiter to call the shots: On occasion, job applicants have trouble not being in control of the hiring process, and anxiety forces them to take certain actions that can be perceived as stepping on the toes of the recruiter. When working with a recruiter, it's in your best interest to ask them permission – as well as their opinion – and keep them in the loop with any client contact, including sending thank-you emails or negotiating salaries. 

  • Do remain cordial and professional, even if you don’t get the job: Another great way to get into a recruiter's good graces is to be gracious upon losing an offer. Sometimes, applicants will badmouth the hiring manager, which makes them look petty and unprofessional. This is not to mention that they are talking poorly about the recruiters' clients. How you behave when things don't go your way is just as important as how you behave when they do.

The don’ts

  • Don't be a sore loser: Recruiters find the sour grapes mentality very off-putting, and complaining has no benefit to you. Sometimes you get the job, sometimes you don't. However, never lose your composure when things don't go your way.

  • Don't be indecisive: Don't interview just to get in the recruiter's good graces. Doing so will not strengthen the relationship and will ultimately come back to hurt you. Whether you interview well and don't accept a job, or don't receive an offer, it's a lose-lose situation. Also, if you are approached for a job you are not interested in, it's best to politely decline and thank the recruiter for their consideration.

Recruiters are valuable resources 

It's a competitive job market out there, and knowing how to work with a recruiter can help you navigate it, from identifying employers and helping you prepare for the interview to negotiating salary. Put these tips to use to create a partnership that will help you land your next job.

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With a drive to foster safety and expand possibilities through writing, performing, and working with others, Ronda brings 25 years of combined experience in HR, recruiting, career advice, communications, mental and behavioral health, and storytelling to her work. She’s a certified career coach and holds a Master’s in Human Resources, a Master’s in Film and Media Production, and a Master’s in Counseling and Development. As a writer, she’s covered topics ranging from finance and rock mining to leadership and internet technology, with a passion for career advice and mental-health-related topics. When she’s not at her computer, Ronda enjoys connecting with others, personal growth and development, spending time with her beloved pooch, and entertainment through movies, television, acting, and other artistic endeavors. You can connect with Ronda on LinkedIn and through her website.

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